Anonymous asked: Do you still talk to the sensitive musician?

Nope ! Wow so many love life q’s tonight

  April 24, 2014 at 11:53pm

Anonymous asked: Is DBD the banker you said was cute a whille back ago????

Nope !

  April 24, 2014 at 11:48pm

Anonymous asked: I would like my wife to start reading your site, but I don't know how to suggest that without it sounding like I think you are cooler than she is or that I wish she was more like you in the bedroom. I really just want her to be exposed to more things and discover what she likes because we've both agreed our love life is in a rut lately...

It’s a shame that people get so defensive about stuff like that but I understand it. Just try to very gently bring it up by saying something like, “Have you ever seen any sex blogs on Tumblr? They have dirty pics and videos and stuff and maybe we could get ideas for positions or new things?” Then show her mine as an example of one you like, you don’t have to tell her you really love my blog or anything if you think she could get jealy or something. Maybe she’ll jump on the bandwagon, maybe not, but I’m sure you’ll be respectful either way. Also I will delete this question by tomorrow in case you do bring her here :) kisses

  April 24, 2014 at 09:30pm

Anonymous asked: Were you seeing DBD when you went to visit The Italian in NYC?

Nope, we talked but it was strictly business at that point. I would have never ever imagined we’d be in the situation we are in now. It’s so cray

  April 24, 2014 at 09:23pm

Anonymous asked: Hey DB! I'm a bit worried because I'm not extremely experienced in having sex, only had it about 5/6 times and the guy I'm seeing this weekend is very experienced! I want to impress him and be really good so he doesn't think I'm bad basically! Any tips for this? Thanks for any help xx (I used your blowjob tips and they went down an absolute treat, thank you!!!!) xxx

Believe me that I’ve discussed this with a whole lot of guys and they completely agree that the hottest thing a girl can do in bed is enjoy herself. It’s really not difficult to make sex good for the guy, not to undermine guys because I loooove them but they’re likely just soo stoked you’re touching their dick and they’re seeing and feeling you naked. And any good partner LOVES their partner enjoying themselves and feeling responsible for their pleasure. So to enjoy yourself first of try to be confident, because that just makes everything way easier. Be open and willing to try new things, and equally as open as telling him what you like and want. Don’t be afraid to rub your clit while he’s fucking you. Tell him if you want it harder, or softer, or faster. Vocalize your enjoyment. If you haven’t already have a talk about kinks, fetishes, and fantasies. I’m sure letting him live out one of his fantasies with you will definitely make it memorable :) But please don’t go into it trying to impress him, sex should be completely mutual. Just because he’s had more partners doesn’t automatically mean he’s going to impressive- just to warn you ;) have fun though, and be safe!! Kiss

  April 24, 2014 at 09:23pm

Anonymous asked: It's sooooooo hard for me to orgasm. What should I do?! The only thing that works is clit action ):

That’s very normal and common. Try combining vaginal and/or anal penetration with clitoral stimulation. Once you connect those two feelings of pleasure, it will make penetration more enjoyable. I starting out the same way and now I much prefer clit stim + penetration instead of just my clitoris, and I can also cum from just penetration. Practice makes perfect, but if you still can only cum from clit stuff don’t worry and def don’t complain!!! The clitoris is a magical little bundle of nerves. Also if you want, check out my Sex Tips page for tips on how to reach orgasm for women :) kiss

  April 24, 2014 at 09:12pm


Just a reminder that if you’re under 18 you shouldn’t be on my blog! Especially if you message me telling me so, I will not respond and I’ll be forced to ignore you! Sorry, but come back when you’re 18+!!

Dis ^

Anonymous asked: I don't like being on top of my boy bc it just does nothing for me... Am I doing something wrong or is it normal?

Try diff positions w you on top if you haven’t already, look some up online because describing them is difficult. There are lots of variations, changing up what you’re doing and his position on the button while you’re on top. Also try adjusting the angle of your pelvis so he’s hitting you at different spots. If you don’t know where you gspot is, try to figure that out (also can be helped by simple google search) and adjust so he’s hitting that while you’re on top. Good luck, kisses

  April 24, 2014 at 09:03pm

Anonymous asked: Who's DBD? Sorry, I'm new here(: lol

Acronym for “Dirty Berd’s Daddy.” My main squeeze. My PIC. My lovah. The Jay to my Bey. But, most importantly, the guy who eats my ass.

  April 24, 2014 at 08:53pm

Anonymous asked: Is the bumhole as stretchy and elastic-like like the vagina? Does it always eventually go back to its 'original form'? My boyfriend and I want to start getting into butt-stuff soon (that's a good way to put it ya feel) and I'm curious.

Yes :) you poo all the time and it goes back to being tight right? Occasional anal isn’t going to have any affect. Check out my Sex Tips for more tips :)) kisses

  April 24, 2014 at 08:50pm

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